Sample letter of sex chats
2) Sex has to be learned, it’s not like breathing or blinking.
So if two people have never had sex and they decide to start having sex, it might not be much fun at first.
And the good news is, I can tell you from experience, the more parents talk about sex with their kids, the less awkward and uncomfortable it is.
Sex is very normal, and not talking about it is what makes it seem weird, uncomfortable and not-normal.
I can see you have a ton of confidence just to write it up and send it. I also think you are not the only 18 year old that feels this way. So I’m hoping this public post can be a help to others who feel just like you. And I would 100% recommend that you share this same email with them — both your mother and father — and tell them you want to have a series of open, frank conversations about sex with them.Not only does it create trust between you and your kids but it prepares them to be functional teens and adults.I know this probably isn’t the kind of email you want to read but I thought that you could answer it with keen insight.So open conversations can bring it back to normal really quickly.In addition to your parents, I hope you will also ask other adults in your life (teachers, church leaders, aunts) for open conversations about sex.